Some Basic Sex Tips to Please Him
Men consider women awfully difficult to please, but how often have you felt like you know exactly what you’re doing? If you aren’t sure he’s actually enjoying what you’re doing, ASK him! Men rarely let you know they don’t like something you’re doing... part of the great male ego fiasco. But you’d be amazed to see his relief if you give him the chance to tell you how he feels. Be sure not to open a dam though... You might not really enjoy handing him that box of tissues. Good old-fashioned love-making tips are not necessarily going to get you through the night. What you need are some contemporary sex tips on how to please your man. Here are a handful:
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Remind yourself how sexy you are
Don’t worry about what he thinks of your paunch, your thighs, or that grotesque cellulite. Chances are that you’re simply obsessed over these, while he hasn’t even noticed them. Most men even find a tiny paunch endearing... Feel sexy from within, and there’s nothing to stop him from feeling the same about you. If you’re comfortable with yourself, he will be too.
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Do the Strip Tease
That’s sure to thrill him EVERY single time. All men like to watch! And they can NEVER have enough of this! So don’t be shy.
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Underneath your clothes
No matter what you’re wearing on the outside, always wear sexy lingerie. You never know when the mood strikes and you certainly don’t want to be wearing embarrassing underwear that’s meant for no one else to see!
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Masturbate
There’s nothing wrong with masturbation. In fact, if YOU don’t know how to touch yourself, you shouldn’t really expect HIM to know either... He doesn’t even HAVE a vagina of his own! So learn what your body likes and help him when he seems to be lost in paradise.
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Take the initiative
Most men would give anything on the face of this earth to see their women take charge once in a while. It’s somewhat exciting for them to be at the receiving end sometimes. Even men like surprises!
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Don’t play dead
Nothing can be a better turn-off! Just imagining your lover with half the enthusiasm would probably make you cringe. Show him some emotion, move your body in synch with his own, help him find your G-spot, moan a little...
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Control your vagina
A woman who can control her vagina knows how to heighten intimate experience by an extremely large extent. Learn how to tighten and relax your PC muscles at will. Let him feel your body crave for more of him. This is an unspoken way of telling him you’re not letting go very easily.
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Oral sex
Don’t look as if you’re doing it just for the heck of it. Expressions speak volumes for themselves, so try to look as if you’re enjoying it, even if it’s not something you’ve always dreamed of doing. Read up on such things if you don’t really know what to do. Don't bite him, unless he asks for it, and don't be too rough with him either. Finally, remember that you don't have to swallow his semen if you don’t want to, so don’t look as if you’d rather kill yourself, let him cum elsewhere on your body.
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Talk to him
This cannot be stressed enough! Communication is the key to any kind of relationship, more so if physical intimacy is involved. Talk to him about how you feel, what you’d like him to do to you, anything you want! Try not to nag him, however. Add some spice to your relationship: talk dirty to him… He’ll love it!